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Yesterday I was talking with a friend of mine and it was a general discussion about things..
but all of a sudden the mysterious topic of "LOVE " came in..
He asked me what is love ?
I took a minute's pause and replied love is friendship,
but now I think love is much more than friendship, because we have so many friends but we love only one person...
So, what is LOVE ?
The most discussed topic in literature and films.
I think love begins with friendship,
You start talking to each other, then the time span increases from two minutes to two hours and you just don't notice that, you start looking for cheaper mobile plans. Even the chats increase.
You start liking each picture of him, you follow each of his update.
You try to gift him the best gift, may that be a perfume, a watch or just a poem which is written only for him..
But you know what? these things are limited to only a particularly age, specially sixteen to eighteen or in some cases twenty years, where only these things matter to you..
You are not mature in this love..
Love is not a rule which u apply and get an answer, but you need to create your own rule for that.
Many authors, poets write about love and no doubt you enjoy all that but when love happens to you,
you write your own theory, you can't follow someone else's theory of love there.
Just like in exams whatever may happen, you copy or ask your friend or you cheat but at the end you have to write answers in your own handwriting, in your own answer sheet...
In love,
You care for the other person, he is the last thought in your dreams and the first thought when you wake up.
He is so darn important to you that you start living two lives,
one of your own, where you have your own world of your family,friends, your likes and dislikes.
And secondly, you start living a life with him, you become his first priority, he asks you silly questions like shall i drink tea or coffee today?
After a long chat when he doesn't want to sleep, You make him sleep and you wake up early just to wake him up, you have to keep the phone call on when he says, let me sleep two minutes more baby!
He tells you each and every single thing, there are no secrets, no hidden desires..
It's like a glass window, though the window is there still you can see the other side of the window too..
So, like a window you both are two souls but you can see through each other's heart..
You are so very particular about yourself , you try to look your best though you know the reality that he loves your "just now woke up " face too..
You deck up for him, the way you give importance to your favorite color of clothes, his favorite color also adds to the list..
But in all these things you don't give away your own identity,
you are the same person,
no changes,
no new things,
the same self respect and name....
LOVE,
a short and sweet four letters word but is a deep meaningful feeling in itself..
Love can happen with anybody,
your loved one maybe short,tall,thin, healthy or fat but all that doesn't matter,
because in love you don't give importance to the outer layer of beauty,
richness,
36-24-36 figure,
what lipstick, perfume, maskara, eyeliner she uses,
what she wears shorts,frocks,punjabi dresses, sarees or
what is his salary,
how big is his house,
does he wear branded clothes, shoes or not..
All these is just ignored when you look inside that person, you love the inner beauty and you be in love...
Generally people say you fall in love but when u fall, it's a sudden thing, and that is shocking for you..
But when you are in something, it's by your choice, you are responsible for your own actions and your decisions to be so.
And so you don't fall but instead you be in love...
When you are sad, you need someone to be with you and not with his iPhone or Mac constantly replying to his important mails.
When you are crying, you need just a finger to wipe your tears and not the branded clothes..
When the person is not with you then, what will you do with his lavish house and salary in lacs?
You need a person who will be with you,
to hug you tightly when you are happy,
to pat your back when you are sad,
to hold you close when you are crying,
to wipe your tears rolled down on your cheeks or lips,
to kiss you on your cheeks,lips, forehead with the changes in emotions,
to give you that feeling of "completeness"
to be there when you need him,
to share a cup of coffee,
enjoy the movies,
understand the silent words in love,
even enjoy the moments without any single word,
to enjoy the rains with you,
enjoy the beaches in summer and cuddle you in one blanket in the winter...
You deserve the one who will be happy holding your hand and not waist,
you deserve the one who will introduce you to his friends as "my girl ",
you deserve to be loved,
to be cared,
and treated like a princess, just the way your king, your father brought you up,
you deserve to be respected, and given equal responsibilities,
you need that special someone to be with you every minute, every second....
So, fall in love,
accept that feeling and express that to your love,
enjoy the festival of love,
enjoy "togetherness",
the small talks,
fights,
saying "i love you" in whispers,
trying not to blush when he says, "you are beautiful !"
enjoy each and every moment,
enjoy his company...
Don't hesitate.
It's ok, if have more than one person whom you like,
but don't cheat in love and don't get cheated too,
trust him but don't trust him blindly,
because at the end what matters is your self respect and identity, and if he is tearing down that then leave him,
because for your prince, your identity as an individual and independent women matters a lot,
Relationships do break but understand that crack in your relationship and accept the fact ASAP and move on,
life is beautiful in it's own way,
so be in love.
go, grab that person and,
be someone's special someone......
but all of a sudden the mysterious topic of "LOVE " came in..
He asked me what is love ?
I took a minute's pause and replied love is friendship,
but now I think love is much more than friendship, because we have so many friends but we love only one person...
So, what is LOVE ?
The most discussed topic in literature and films.
I think love begins with friendship,
You start talking to each other, then the time span increases from two minutes to two hours and you just don't notice that, you start looking for cheaper mobile plans. Even the chats increase.
You start liking each picture of him, you follow each of his update.
You try to gift him the best gift, may that be a perfume, a watch or just a poem which is written only for him..
But you know what? these things are limited to only a particularly age, specially sixteen to eighteen or in some cases twenty years, where only these things matter to you..
You are not mature in this love..
Love is not a rule which u apply and get an answer, but you need to create your own rule for that.
Many authors, poets write about love and no doubt you enjoy all that but when love happens to you,
you write your own theory, you can't follow someone else's theory of love there.
Just like in exams whatever may happen, you copy or ask your friend or you cheat but at the end you have to write answers in your own handwriting, in your own answer sheet...
In love,
You care for the other person, he is the last thought in your dreams and the first thought when you wake up.
He is so darn important to you that you start living two lives,
one of your own, where you have your own world of your family,friends, your likes and dislikes.
And secondly, you start living a life with him, you become his first priority, he asks you silly questions like shall i drink tea or coffee today?
After a long chat when he doesn't want to sleep, You make him sleep and you wake up early just to wake him up, you have to keep the phone call on when he says, let me sleep two minutes more baby!
He tells you each and every single thing, there are no secrets, no hidden desires..
It's like a glass window, though the window is there still you can see the other side of the window too..
So, like a window you both are two souls but you can see through each other's heart..
You are so very particular about yourself , you try to look your best though you know the reality that he loves your "just now woke up " face too..
You deck up for him, the way you give importance to your favorite color of clothes, his favorite color also adds to the list..
But in all these things you don't give away your own identity,
you are the same person,
no changes,
no new things,
the same self respect and name....
LOVE,
a short and sweet four letters word but is a deep meaningful feeling in itself..
Love can happen with anybody,
your loved one maybe short,tall,thin, healthy or fat but all that doesn't matter,
because in love you don't give importance to the outer layer of beauty,
richness,
36-24-36 figure,
what lipstick, perfume, maskara, eyeliner she uses,
what she wears shorts,frocks,punjabi dresses, sarees or
what is his salary,
how big is his house,
does he wear branded clothes, shoes or not..
All these is just ignored when you look inside that person, you love the inner beauty and you be in love...
Generally people say you fall in love but when u fall, it's a sudden thing, and that is shocking for you..
But when you are in something, it's by your choice, you are responsible for your own actions and your decisions to be so.
And so you don't fall but instead you be in love...
When you are sad, you need someone to be with you and not with his iPhone or Mac constantly replying to his important mails.
When you are crying, you need just a finger to wipe your tears and not the branded clothes..
When the person is not with you then, what will you do with his lavish house and salary in lacs?
You need a person who will be with you,
to hug you tightly when you are happy,
to pat your back when you are sad,
to hold you close when you are crying,
to wipe your tears rolled down on your cheeks or lips,
to kiss you on your cheeks,lips, forehead with the changes in emotions,
to give you that feeling of "completeness"
to be there when you need him,
to share a cup of coffee,
enjoy the movies,
understand the silent words in love,
even enjoy the moments without any single word,
to enjoy the rains with you,
enjoy the beaches in summer and cuddle you in one blanket in the winter...
You deserve the one who will be happy holding your hand and not waist,
you deserve the one who will introduce you to his friends as "my girl ",
you deserve to be loved,
to be cared,
and treated like a princess, just the way your king, your father brought you up,
you deserve to be respected, and given equal responsibilities,
you need that special someone to be with you every minute, every second....
So, fall in love,
accept that feeling and express that to your love,
enjoy the festival of love,
enjoy "togetherness",
the small talks,
fights,
saying "i love you" in whispers,
trying not to blush when he says, "you are beautiful !"
enjoy each and every moment,
enjoy his company...
Don't hesitate.
It's ok, if have more than one person whom you like,
but don't cheat in love and don't get cheated too,
trust him but don't trust him blindly,
because at the end what matters is your self respect and identity, and if he is tearing down that then leave him,
because for your prince, your identity as an individual and independent women matters a lot,
Relationships do break but understand that crack in your relationship and accept the fact ASAP and move on,
life is beautiful in it's own way,
so be in love.
go, grab that person and,
be someone's special someone......
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